Could go one of two ways, either you will become the object in the way that is seen as "homewrecker and jealous" which the husband will try to pinpoint you as, or your classified info released can perhaps bring them closer or break up something that probably needs to be
I don't know if he's cheating on the marriage in the traditional sense, but he's apparently cheating on the agreement you both made. And he's hiding it, which means he's being dishonest.
It is a sensor that is telling you too look out for this man. He is a chiller. That's what you call it because if he is cheating on you and you had a baby without telling the father of that child then there is going Tobe a lot of fussing.
Nothing, but time. Time brings forgiveness, love and mostly regain trust.
aside from the routine snooping, observe his body language and look -- tho don't over do it -- for discrepancies between his words and his body language including his actions. at some point, voice your suspicions and ask him directly if he's cheating. most liars are not hard to find out if you're paying attention.
When a couple separates they are free to date whomever they want and it doesn't come under the heading of cheating.
go to the 99 cent stor and buy a couple of thongs and leave a pair on the bedroom floor under the bed oh her side or just do nothing and keep her !!!!!!
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wife separated from husband pending divorce
Generally no it is not selfish of a wife not to let her husband to allow his friends to live with them. If they are close friends and have lost their home and need to get on their feet and you have the room then yes, for the sake of humanity one should take only a family in (whether it's one couple and no children or with children.) If they are single then they are adults and therefore should not use your home as a flop house. Stand your ground if this is the case. The work load will be on your shoulders and remind your husband of that.
When a person is cheating by texting they are generally very foxy and private so your best bet to catch your husband is to see what his pattern is for going out especially in the evenings or weekends and either you and a girlfriend follow him in your girlfriends car (so he won't recognize it) or hire a detective for a couple of weeks to follow your husband and see if he really is seeing another woman.
Reasons a couple breaks up for your storyline:Financial problems.The husband or wife does not want to start a family.The husband or wife are working too many hours and not spending enough time with each other.The husband or wife are not attracted to each other sexually.The couple are having problems with their children which is causing them to argue more often.Husband or wife has a life threatening illness and the stress is too much for the healthy spouse.