If your ex was with his girlfriend for a year then you got together why would he break up with you for her but still say he loves you and cheats on her with you?

Answer 1

Well to me it sounds like your ex has the biggest male eagle ever, if he wants to be with this other girl then let him but don't let him do the dirty on her and cheat with you. Come on if it was the other way round it wouldn't be nice on you right? Just give up on him, ok so it maybe hard but face it, its better then getting all upset about it. My advice is forget about him and move on. Dont talk to him, don't give him the satisfaction. He obviously is keeping his options open. What do you think he would do if he split up with her? Yeah come running back to you because he knows you ould take him back. So be strong girl and don't let him walk all over you, and if he does truly like you he will split up with her and be with you properly, not just as a bit on the side.

AnswerMany guys have no sense of loyalty or honor and are pleased to "get a little" anywhere they can. If you're giving it out while he has a girlfriend, he's happy. Maybe the girlfriend doesn't want to be sexually active before marriage and he thinks she will be a great wife so he wants to hang on to her for the future, but he wants a little sexual gratification so he turns to you. Not very moral or honorable, but some guys are that way.

An even more disloyal possibility is that his current girlfriend is sexually active with him but he likes a little variety, so he calls on you.

Either way, he doesn't seem very mature.

You're being jerked aroundIt means you're being jerked around and should break it off cleanly with him or her.