it sounds like he is in love with her, or he would be trying harder to make your marriage work.
he is proberly angry because he got caught and hes mad that the person that found out with give him problems.Hope this helps.=)
Because it is risky enough possibly getting caught by his wife, he doesn't need to add to the risk of getting caught by "her" husband.
It is much better if the husband admits to his affair because it shows he has remorse and humans make mistakes, but when a husband has the intestinal fortitude to admit he was wrong in what he did then he is ready to try and make the marriage work. A husband who has to be caught in an affair may even become angry over the fact his wife found out and he is neither remorseful and basically selfish not considering the hurt he is inflicting on his wife and family.
yes i think she would
I think that is the right move, but my question is, did you caught his affair or he came forward and tell you about it. Now the limbo will start, all the question will come out from you. You will have this betrayal and trust issue with your husband. One thing though, do not let your husband tell you " it just happen" or I'm sorry I didn't mean to do it." This are what most married men will say when they get caught. If you think about it, he is not a tiny sorry for having an affair nor it just happen, because he did planned what he did.This will be up to you, either you want to forgive him and he might do it again, or move on without him in your life. It's not hard being a divorce, I did it because the man I married had affair to...
Time to end the marriage and move on to someone who will be a real husband.
Yes, if a husband is caught having an affair with another woman he could have picked up a sexually transmitted disease and given it to the wife. People must realize that in most cases when they sleep with someone other than their mate that person could have slept with many people and picked up a sexually transmitted disease.
Most people who have a conscience would feel haunted by the fact they are cheating on their husband and the affair would suffer because of it. Also you could run the risk of being caught by your husband and some men are not willing to forgive so easily when hurt that badly. If you love your husband then it would be wise of you to end the affair immediately. If you do not love your husband then do not keep cheating, but let your husband know the truth and file for divorce and then, and only then should you be seeing this other man. When in doubt put yourself in the shoes of your husband!
Yep. He apparently really wanted her.
yes. hes sick and unappreciative. you can do better.
Yes, when your husband has had an affair and been recently caught your wounds are still fresh because he has broken that bond of trust. For the first time you are looking at your husband in disbelief and with a new perception of him. The trust is gone and until he can earn it back then you will never feel quite the same about him again because you will fear he will have another affair. It is important to seek marriage counseling and to get your husband to communicate with you more openly. Both men and women around the beginning of their 40's and sometimes older may feel they are missing something; want to recapture their youth and want to know the opposite sex is still interested in them. If your husband has not had an affair before and now that he has been caught there is a good chance he will never do it again, but you both have to approach the problem he has in the marriage in a calm manner no matter how much he has hurt you.
They did have a tryst in the early 1970s, and were caught by her then-husband, Ringo Starr. He and Maureen were already on the outs; Starr and Harrison remained friends.