Is it bad im aroused by my mom?

Answer 1

You can't actually help what does or does not arouse you, but your feelings would not be shared by most other people. It is also important to understand that while you can not help your feelings, you are in control of what you do and say and society has laws that say that your must not pursue these feelings. It is probable that as you grow older, your feelings of attraction will focus on females that are not part of your immediate family, try and socialise with some of these.

Answer 2

Dreams are involuntary, so there can be no "right" or "wrong" applied to them. It is very common for young men to have disturbingly inappropriate sexual dreams as they go through puberty. As far back as Ancient Greece, humans have struggled with the inability to control such dreams and their frightening implications. In the past century, Sigmund Freud developed the entire process of psychoanalysis around the anxiety over precisely this sort of dream. But most young men find that such dreams fade as their interest turns to girls nearer their own age.

Answer 3

Yes.