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If my husband has been making plans to have an affair should I approach him or see if he does it?
Unless he has come straight out and told you he is going to have an affair which is highly unlikely or you simply are suspecting he is going to have an affair marriage is about honesty, loyalty, trust and good communication skills. Most marriage problems are because the spouses have no communication skills and do not share their feelings with each other. Rather than say anything about a possible affair your husband may have go for a walk with him or go to a quiet restaurant and ask if he is happy in the marriage and if not what could the two of you do to fix it. Ask him to express his feelings to you and then let him know what some of his short comings are without arguing about it. There is no excuse for cheating and if one spouse or both spouses are unhappy with their marriage and want to divorce and move on they should have the fortitude to sit down and discuss it and not cheat. Cheating proves nothing and it is a selfish act. You need to start taking some control over your marriage and in a gentle way remind him that you will not tolerate cheating.
Im having an affair but she is still sleeping with her man?
If she is living or married to this man why would you think she wouldn't be sleeping with him because it's a relationship. An 'affair' means that one is cheating on their mate with another. Cheating is wrong and the persons cheating generally lose out.Answer:Wow I didn't know that you are jealous or even insecure about your mistress sleeping with her husband. I don't think you can predict what she will do when she's at home with her husband. If her husband didn't know that she is having an affair, I think she will be more loving towards him so he wouldn't suspect anything.I'm afraid that you don't have a leverage, because she is still married to her husband.
How to get over an affair which was perfect till one partner lost the desire- is confused wth stress at work and home.Stress not related with us. we love our spouses also and were happy in our affair.?
== Answer == It is simply wrong to have an affair (cheating on your spouses) and that's the cause of the stress and not work related. Some people can slip-up in their lives and have an affair, but most people feel guilty about it and sooner or later it's going to cause stress. This person could also just be tired of having an affair and may go onto another one. Don't believe everything you hear. It's time to take those marriage vows seriously and you were both being selfish by cheating on your spouses. Either work on your marriage or get a divorce. Don't tie your spouse up while you cheat because it's pure selfishness. I dont think it was confusion as much as it was guilt and energy drain. You started this relationship on false pretenses anyway, what did you expect to gain out of it aside from the rush of secrecy and something different then what was at home. How can you say you love your spouses if you were cheating on them. Something had to have been lacking in those relationships for the two of you to seek outside entertainment. You must decide if you want to be married or if you want to be with others. You dont know what is was exactly because you both were living a lie. I am not being judgemental just telling you the reality of what its like from looking from the outside. These relationships rarely have long lasting benenfits. Stop staying on the middle of the fence and pick a side.
Is it considered cheating if your hanging out with your ex secretly?
it is not concidered "cheating" if its just hanging out, but it is very wrong, and you should let your boyfriend/girlfriend know that you are doing that.
Should a cheating wife confess to her lover's wife?
It depend to how long and how it started, but yes she needs to confess to this woman. Especially if this woman doesn't know what's going on. And what about the cheating wife's husband, what did he do to be betrayed by her. If the cheating wife and the cheating husband are having a wonderful time hiding their affair, do remember what goes around comes around.
Why is it when the flashback of spouse affair she feels like it just happen yesterday?
When a man cheats on his wife he has broken the bond of trust and has deeply hurt his wife. She is hurt because she trusted him and thought he loved her and she is hurt and angry over the thought of her spouse sneaking out and having an affair making her look like a fool. That memory will always be with the wife, but, if they try at their marriage it may be saved if the cheating spouse is willing to know a good thing when he has it. People who cheat on their spouses always lose in the end.
Why do wives stay with serial cheating husbands?
Many reasons - maybe she doesn't know. Really, the internet and mobile phones make cheating a lot easier. Or maybe she doesn't realize he's a serial cheater and thinks it was a one off affair. There is the idea that the couple can "get past" an affair [singular], which might be true, just not with a serial cheater. This type of spouse has deeper issues and will never ever stop cheating. Ever.
How do you tell your mate is cheating?
They tell you they have to work late, but they are REALLY having an affair. They talk on the phone in private, check other people out. They go out A LOT and that's about all I know.
My sister's boyfriend fingered me over the weekend is that considered cheating?
Yes, of course it is. Unless they are in an "open relationship" then any other sexual contact not within the relationship is considered cheating. If she doesn't know, then keep it to yourself, they can deal with the problem.
Is a husband considered cheating if he tells a female coworker something about you that you didn't want anyone to know?
That would depend on how you define cheating. Most people define it as meaning having a sexual relationship with a person other than the spouse. Talking to people is not generally considered cheating, nor is an indiscreet revelation.
Is talking to a lady coworker all the time on your cell considered cheating on your wife?
Unless you are talking about business with this woman by cell then you should only keep your casual conversations at work. You already know you are playing with fire as you have absolutely no reason to constantly talk with this coworker and therefore, whether you have an affair with this woman or not you are, in ways cheating on your wife. When in doubt put yourself in your wife's shoes .. how would you feel if she did what you are doing?
How do you make your husband realize you are not cheating?
Both men and women who feel their spouse is cheating on them even though they are not can be caused by either the mistrusting spouse cheating themselves or they have been cheated on in the past or perhaps had a parent that cheated. Spouses who accuse the other of cheating lack self confidence from one of the above mentioned. There is not much you can do to prove to him you are not cheating, but sit down and communicate and let him know that if it continues he will certainly lose you because you do not want to live his way of life with all his mistrust reflecting upon you.
