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Is it normal for you to make a fool of yourself trying to hold onto a narcissist if he decides after a ten-year relationship that he doesn't want you anymore?
I wouldn't say it's normal but many a spouse will hang on to their worst half because they truly love them, feel that they have taken a vow of marriage or perhaps in the past a vow to each other when living together. There may be children involved and that makes a tight bond between the two whether they like it or not. Some people are just stronger than others and will try to work things out, but if they can't they'll kick the person out of their lives. Some people are fearful (especially if there are children involved) of leaving their narcissistic spouse and venturing out on their own. The world can be a scary place even going through it with a good spouse. People often anticipate those fears and blow them out of proportion and leaving a spouse is painful, but it's not the end of the world. When all is said and done you can look back on and be glad they either left or you left them. No person respects another person if the victim sits by and allows that abuse. The abuser (mental/physical) will use that person as their whipping post and every time this occurs the abuser (and narcissistic people are mental abusers) will loathe their mate for that very thing. Narcissistic people feel ultimately powerful, always right (everyone else is always wrong) and will fight to the bitter end to come out on top. Narcissistic people seldom seek counseling because they feel this is a weakness and it doesn't apply to their behavior. Kick this guy to the curb. Don't even give him the time to come in and out of your home. Pack his things and boot his butt out that door! Believe me, you can do much better!
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Who decides when a WWE superstar isn't needed anymore?
Vince McMahon
In eclipse does edward leave Bella anymore?
No. After what happened in New Moon, Edward decides leaving Bella wouldn't solve any of her problems and decides not to leave her ever again.
What if you haven't seen your boyfriend for 3 weeks due to both of you going on holiday and before you went everything was fine but when you get back he decides its not working any more?
You can't keep a healthy relationship if one doesnt feel the same anymore. You could ask what you have done wrong and ask him if you can fix it but in the end if he says that he just doesnt want the relationship anymore, you are going to have to respect that. You havent done anything wrong, you BOTH went on holiday.
If a narcissist asked you to wait 10 years for him does this mean you will never be free from him?
Why would some one "wait." 10 years? it doesn't matter who you are waiting for if the person loved you they would demonstrate that love right away. So, if some one decides to put their life on hold for a narcissist i suggest to go get professional help as to why you would do such a thing. Plus, I think you would give as your life will change. A Narcissist thinks you have nothing better to do!!
Are parent's required to testify?
Parents can be required to testify because there is no privilege in the relationship. A Jury decides how much weight to give their testimony because of the relationship.
Why does a narcissist have certain fixations about sex?
Many narcissists use SEX as a way to "feel better." They have no real emotional feelings like you and I -- an orgasm is about as close as they get.Narcissistic Personality Disorder and sexThe sexual relationship with the narcissist is most peculiar. Narcissists are exhibitionists and sex is just one further means of being admired to her or him. There does not exist intimacy and you will frequently feel used. The narcissist will demand that you subdue yourself. Your own sexual preferences will be boycotted or twisted. Narcissists have a strong tendency to sexually abuse a partner and children. Here is a list of some of these abusive behaviors:You are prohibited from masturbating or feel good about your own body under the threat of punishmentYou are being made to watch porn although you don't want toYou are not allowed any sexual gratification yourselfThe narcissist pretends to be sexual for you but is after her/his gratification onlyYour sexual past is being torn apartYou are being told that all you want is sex (although you know this is not the case, however sex is central to the narcissist)The narcissist instigates sex (like telling you erotic things and sending you pictures or emails which are sexual) but then decides last minute that nothing is to take place or simply demands abusive sexThe narcissist abuses you while you are asleep (sleep rape)You are being raped on a daily basisYou are feeling humiliated and yet the narcissist claims that (s)he has been humiliatedThe narcissist finds it funny when you get hurt and enjoys it when you get hurt, this can be physically or emotionallyThe narcissist instigates and turns everything into a sexual gameThe narcissist demands prolonged sex way above the limit you can handle nor want toThe narcissist tells you that you want to have sexual relations with everybody although the narcissist has a strong tendency to flirt with others and to be infidelYou are being told off for the fact that you were flirting with someone although you are not flirting at allThe narcissist makes fun of your sexuality in front of others (e.g. you have a small penis or small breasts)The narcissist demands sex when you make it clear that you don't want toThe narcissist has to try out everything possibleThe narcissist is an exhibitionist and will want sex in public and dresses inappropriately at home and or elsewhereThere is another form of sexual abuse. In fact, so I believe, it is the most common one, and hence it took me so long to get it. This form of abuse comes in four stages:Firstly, the victim will be forced to reveal her or his sexual preferences and experiences to the perpetrator.Secondly, the perpetrator will condition the victim to direct her or his entire sexuality towards the perpetrator. At this stage, the sexual relationship is intense.Thirdly, the perpetrator reduces the intensity of the sexual relationship dramatically, so that the victim is in constant sexual need.Fourthy, the perpetrator grants inproper sexual gratification in order to maintain the sexual need of the victim. Now, the victim, who is (sexually) dependent on the perpetrator, can be humiliated, manipulated and used.
Is it normal to want to get back at a narcissist who has caused you pain?
change is frightening. Sometimes we are willing to endure pain because it's familiar even though intellectually, we know it's harmful. When someone leaves a relationship it makes you feel abandoned and that can make you feel unworthy, as though you're not worthwhile. But if you'll examne the relationship, you know that it was never good for you. Look at this as an opportunity. When the narcisist decides to move on for the next conquest, consider it an opportunity for you to start over.
How does Deterring react to the cherry tree in All Quiet On The Western Front?
He feels relatively sad and decides that he can't take the war anymore, so he decides to run away. The sad thing is that he is captured and we never know what happened to him.
What should you do when a family member has been abused in her relationship and doesn't want to leave said relationship?
There isn't much you can do until this person decides on their own that they want to leave.
Will someone with adhd that lives with my girlfriend and i destroy our relationship?
definitely not.only if you let it.it is yours and her actions who decides whether ur relationship is destroyed.it sure will put ur relationship to the ultimate test though
How much does an omellete cost?
Around £1.50 from a takeaway, and 50p if you make it yourself.
If you were discarded by a Narcissist after a 3-month relationship which he said was all an illusion does this mean you're free of him forever or will he come back looking for more supply?
Opinions from contributors: I was discarded after a 4 month relationship that, in her diluted mind, was NOT a dating relationship, when it was the most intense thing I had ever experienced. Anyway, it's been 6 months and I haven't seen hide nor hair of her. She's done. She won't likely be coming back 'round. She didn't even say goodbye. She went on and I laid in bed for months wondering what I had done. It hurts terribly and we want them to 'come back'. They won't and they don't. I was discarded after 6 months of an intense loving relationship. He said it was not real, and acted as if it was me that was nuts, even though we were engaged. He went about his life as if it never happened telling people the biggest lies about me, for no reason at all. I never knew he was a narcissist until a year later and many many awful things. He never actually went away. He met someone and then popped in and out for a while. He comes back I think when he's single. He looks for me but I'm gone. I don't think you can ever be free, or forgotten, unless you make yourself be.
