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…..There is no "magical" answer to this. All too often, couples are madly in love, but have to ask for advice to set their sexual life on track. Your problem is very complex in that it defies the idea of marriage. You simply can't be physically attracted, and not be in love with some one…..well, you can, but this makes for a very precarious situation in which one of you may be seeking the "missing" part of your lives with another person(s). I share common ground with your husband because I once found myself in the same situation. My wife worked and worked sacrificing my time with her as a result of this, and I found that I had more in common with another woman. I never had anything more than communication with this other woman, but the thoughts entered my mind to advance my relationship with her. It was at this moment, that I went home and told my wife I wasn't sure I sill loved her. The lines of communication opened with such a fervor, that we found that other than sex, we didn't have much else in common. Reluctantly, we ended our marriage and found out that we were better off. I dare to suspect that your physical relationship with your husband is in your mind, safe and sure because you don't have to go through the regular rituals to meet and have casual sex with others. Your sexual "premise" has been set, and with all the bad things and in some cases, bad people that are out there, you feel that sex with each other is the safest bet. Please don't mistake the latter as a relationship fixer. This could be the proverbial straw breaking the camel's back in your marriage. He may have already found the more compatible person, or, he may want you to open up to him and see if there is a chance to salvage what you two have.

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