Married for 10 years and have 3 kids I don't trust my husband because in the 10 years he has lied continuously and has cheated before we married Am I wrong not to want him to have lunch with coworkers?

Answer 1

Are you, not really your trust towards your husband has been destroyed by him. Some of us when we lie, for us to get out of trouble we cover the first lie with another lie, until you can't get out anymore. You have a reason why you don't believe and trust your husband, and it will take you a while before that trust can be given back to your husband.

Why don't you let your husband have lunch with his friends that work with him but suggest to him that you want to join him so you can meet this coworkers his planning to have lunch. Stay cool as you can, you will see his reaction. Ask him when and where the lunch is, so that way you can visit them. You can if you want tell your husband that you want him to take you so you can meet those friends of his, but do this the day before it happen so he can't warn who ever it is his going to have lunch with. And if you can do this and his really with a few friends, then give your husband a little trust, until he become the husband that's worthy of you... good luck!