My ex bf who i still like keeps asking me if i still like him and when im talking to my friends hell tell me to shutup or when im in the hallway he poke me or kick me and talks to my bff a lot why?

Answer 1

It is called control. He feels like even though he is not going out with you he wants to control you and he does that by talking down to you and also by poking you and kicking you. You need to tell him to stop and you need to mean it. Doing this stuff to you keeps you on a short leash and can become dangerous. It is a sadistic way of having control over your life. If you dont stop it now it will hurt you when you move on with a new guy and probably cause problems with your new man. It is like he doesnt want to be with you, but also that he is jealous and keeping you on that short leash gives him a say in your life. Make it stop now.