She says she doesn't have a crush on me anymore but is she just saying that because everybody knows that she likes me or is she really over me?

Answer 1

it depends what type of girl she is. shy, quiet girls tend to just say they are over guys they like because they are afraid that the boy they like doesnt feel the same way or they dont want rumors starting about them or they dont like the spotlight to be on them, however ther is still the possibility that they are over the boy they like. no matter the girls personality we all react differently to situations and have our own ways of dealing with things. try talking to the girl alone, it may be a scary situation but a girls friends can really change a girls answer, for example a girl may not feel comfortable letting her friends know how she really feels about a guy. and remember if u really like her why not take the chance to get to know her and ask her out (even if she does say no) you'll never know what her answer is if you dont ask. also if u ask her out and she says no dont go and ask another girl out and try and make her jelious because she might get jelious but its not going to make her want to go out with you. also remember that if those feelings were there once and they were true she wont get over them fast

sorry for writing so much, & goodluck