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Do you want to separate your self from your friend so it will not make you guilty of what you know? If so, you can, he can't force you to stay as his friend forever. You are having issue about his action. Your also wondering why your friend doesn't feel guilty messing around with the married woman. Do you know that when it comes to men, single or married there's no such things as feeling guilty. As long as they can do what they want, they will do what ever it takes. Feeling guilty will not be their issue, especially if the man is single. It does makes him feel bigger because he know he can have relationship with the married woman. With married man, they can't feel guilty because they all will tell you that they have reason why they decided to go to the other side. If you don't agree with me, try to find a few married men who had and still cheating with their wife, ask them why and they will tell you tons of reason why they have affairs with another woman. So over all men in general will never feel guilty to cheating unless they get caught. And that's when you will hear all those sad sorry, all those words " I wasn't thinking", or I didn't mean to do it. Ditto! right?
If you think its right do it!
Don't bring this friend everywhere you go or you will look like a player. Don't talk about her and don't mention her. The best thing for everyone is to simplify your vocabulary and end this "platonic friendship" (affair).
Just let it go unless you want to lose the wife's friendship also.
That gay man should move on other ventures. The only thing he would accomplish is to alientate his friend and lose that friendship.
tell them that your not in the place of your life to get married yet and that your not wanting to destroy your friendship because it means a lot to you
Her question to you could mean many things: She could be asking you if you have said anything to anyone about her having an affair with a married man. She could also be asking who you are dating and if so is he married. There is another possibility she could be hinting a three-way, but not likely. Communication is a big factor in life so you should ask your friend what she meant by this and get it out in the open. You might try being a good friend and tell her that dating married men is the wrong thing to do.
Your friend should not be jealous enough to endanger your friendship. But you can let him/her beat you at something to help cool down the friendship.
You should be honest to your friend. However , if you are not honest and then also you want your friendship to be stronger then you should talk to your friend daily as much as possible.
Friendship bracelets or best friend forever necklaces.
You should ask your friend if they would be o.k. with it, because he/she is you friend and friendship comes first.
It's really hard to justify how deep was the friendship between the two of you. Knowing he is married and it didn't bothered you to move on the next level with him only saying that this married man was emotionally connected with you already. Either his wife and you are friends, or you and him are friends stated that the two of you know each others already. Before the affair the two of you are just friends and can talk to each others without being uncomfortable. But now the two of you has history together and shared intimate moment, it will be hard for him to see you as one of his friend because the two of you cross the line of friendship.
No one should steal from anyone else. A REAL friend would never betray your trust and friendship by stealing from you.