Should I feel offended that my boyfriend looks at porns of ex's or people who look similar?

Answer 1

The person who asked this question also noted that "I guiltily have snooped on his history and computer..." This does not sound like you trust him. If he has given you reason to distrust him, or if you feel he is not the kind of person who is being honest with you, snooping on him is probably not going to help your relationship, and it tells me you have some bigger problems than whether he looks at porn or likes to fantasize about girls who look like his ex. You need to ask yourself whether this guy and you are compatible; perhaps he is not the right person for you.

That said, many guys (and even some girls) are curious about porn, and they might look at it sometimes. This does not mean anything bad, unless the person seems obsessed with porn or prefers porn to actual relationships with real human beings. An occasional glimpse at a porn site, while disconcerting and disappointing to some (especially to those who are opposed to porn for religious reasons), does not have to mean it's the end of your relationship with your boyfriend. But again, only you can decide if you feel comfortable with him and if you can trust him.