What an affair teaches us about ourselves and marriage?

Answer 1

Assuming you mean an affair you, the questioner, had and your marriage, it depends on what you want to learn. You might learn about betrayal, yours to the vows you took, uours to moral behaviour, yours to your spouse.

Answer 2

• Affairs can be caused by lack of communication between the two; selfishness; taking advantage of each other; either one or both of the people do not feel they have to try in the relationship any longer and may even not keep themselves up so they are reasonably attractive. Marriage is not for sissies and every marriage has problems, but good communication skills along with honesty will help strengthen a marriage. An affair teaches the cheater that the grass is not always greener on the other side and often the cheater can end up losing the one they really love.