What are the reasons why wife decided to have affairs?

Answer 1

• The first problem is it is apparent neither of you have good communication skills and because of that your marriage has become weak in different areas and neither of you know what was going on because you both never sat down to talk about any problems rearing their ugly head in your marriage. Most women are romantics; need to feel loved and appreciated by their husband such as the husband buying her flowers every so often; telling her she is pretty or taking her out on dates such as a romantic dinner. Often people who have been married for a couple of years or more begin to feel the pinch of boredom and this is where good communication skills come in. If your wife is having one affair after the other she is searching for love in all the wrong places. If you love her then sit down and talk to her and listen to what she has to say in a calm manner and then express your feelings. Then consider getting marriage counseling (this is not to blame one spouse or the other) but you will be given tools in order to help you deal with problems in your marriage. It is time that both of you grew up and certainly time that you made a better effort in considering your wife's feelings.