What can I do when just before your boyfriend moved to another city you wanted to break up and he didn't and gave you a Promise Ring and since he's been gone he called u but u never bother to call him?

Answer 1

Promise Rings simply mean you promise to wait for him or it's a promise to get engaged. It's rather a silly custom and one that started around the early 1980s. He either loves you very much and doesn't want to lose you and had no choice but to move, or, he wants to be sure you aren't dating anyone else and wants to keep you tied down. When he insisted you take the Promise Ring you should have stood your ground and refused the ring. The fact you don't want to hear from him and by the sounds of it you have a conscience and feel you'll be cheating on him leaves you no choice but to actually write him a short note and tell him you're sorry but you don't want to be tied down and to stop contacting you and then put the ring in a box with the note and send it back to him.