Many guys are shy to meet parents and it's stressful for them, but this guy sounds like he's got too many secrets to hide and feels your parents (almost always wiser than the young) will catch on to who and what he is. I would want to meet the guy that my daughter is dating and you're a smart girl if you are the one that really wants to introduce him to your parents. In this modern age there are too many strange guys out there and it's best your parents know who you are dating. Some guys feel that when you ask them to meet your parents it becomes an extremely serious relationship and he may think you want to get engaged or feel pressure that your parents will want more to happen in this relationship. Parents aren't stupid (they were young once too) and they know that you can only go together so long before sex enters the relationship. If this guy is not that serious about you then there is no way he should be in a sexual relationship. What if you get pregnant? What if you pick up AIDS, HIV etc.? These types of guys will always leave you stranded to deal with it on your own. Parents know that! I'd give him a chance and tell him that your parents are great people, and you just want him to meet them. Tell your parents he's nervous and make it a short visit and casual. If this guy isn't willing to do this for you then kick him to the curb because he's showing he has no respect for you and you might ask him, "What do you have to hide? Only someone who has something to hide wouldn't meet parents. I'm not asking you to get engaged to me, I just want you to meet my parents." I can guess he is going to say something like, "Your parents have nothing to do with our relationship and I don't see why I have to meet them." Don't believe that one! He's up to know good and he's very disrespectful. Good luck hon Marcy
You just tell him
well you ask them then you have them meet your boyfriend but make sure your boyfriendd acts how your parents would want your boyfriend to be like
To each his own. Some parents are strict & don't want you to date until this age or that age; other parents are more lenient & don't care as long as you're honest about it & let them meet your boyfriend.
secretly date them are have your parnants meet this person you want to date so they trust you
Let him meet your parents if you really care about your relationship with him.
have you tried talking to your own parents about this? Ask your boyfriends parents what they have against you. Also have you ever thought that his parents might be a bit overprotective! the girl in the pink cardigan x
he likes you
if he doesnt want to meet ur parents that possibly means he doesnt love u and mabye u should tell him if he really loves u he will meet ur parents
Ask him to come over to meet them, set up a dinner date with him and your parents.
Tell your parents you're going to the mall to chill with some of your girlfriends and just meet up with your boyfriend at the mall.
Maybe he doesn't want to rush. It's not bad if you don't meet his parents immediately; if you feel too much time goes by, calmly ask him about it & explain that you'd like to have lunch or something with him & his parents.
Learn how to speak English, then rephrase your question.