What causes abuse?

Answer 1

Most of the people think abuses happen because of stress, jealousy, or not being able to control themselves. However, these are just myths. Abuses occur not because of anger or stress. It is all about wanting to have power and control. If the batterers are out of control, then they wouldn't be able to calm themselves down when the police arrives. They would not be able to make up stuff to deny all the blames. Abusers usually hit the victims in places that can be covered by clothes. If they are so angry and get out of control, they will not have time to think about where they should hit to not get caught. It's all about control. Truthfully, everyone is busy and stressed out over something, but not everyone use physical acts to express their stress or anger. They should never. Batterers abuse because they choose to do so. It's all about their core belief system. These people need professional help. Unless they change their core beliefs, they will keep hurting the ones they say they love.

Answerthere are many things that cause abuse. People that abuse others are angry with someone so they take it out on anyone around you. Before i got put into foster care i was abused by my step dad. My mom really loved him but he hated us kids. everytime us kids did something that he didnt like he would get the belt out and i know the only reason he hit us was because he was angry. others do it because of drugs. once they get addicted to drugs and then they don't got anymore they get very violent or they can also have a drinking problem i don't know there are many reasons for this but i don't even know where to begin

Answer 2

Its not the triggers that make abusive relationships, its the mentality and stability and maturity of the individuals at hand. When someone can deal with a situation of any sort with decorum and fairness, then they have a stable emotional center. When someone blows up because another spills milk that's not stable, that is unable to cope with outside influences. Not everything can go the way we all want all the time, so compromises and sacrifices have to be made, not one person should be doing this all, it should be shared from the person's in the situation, age appropriately, of course, and you deal with it and move on..

AnswerThe abuser is the one who triggers the abuse, and because they have not admitted their actions as a problem, they carry it from one relationship to the next. The victim's part is only in being the type of person they are (honest, solicitous, adaptable)and being available for abuse.

Answer 3

Physical abuse is caused by al;ot of different reasons. If a kid grew up around a father that is abusive to women then he will be more likely to grow up and do the same. Also, if a child has alot of bottled up anger and don't have the right way to let it out then the child will act out in bad ways and tend to get into trouble because people won't take the actons to talk to the child so he can take about the feelings in the proper way.

Answer 4

well yu have Verbal Abuse occurs when one person uses words and body language to inappropriately criticize another person. you have Psychological Abuse (also known as mental abuse or emotional abuse) occurs when one person controls information available to another person so as to manipulate that person's sense of reality. yu have Physical Abuse occurs when one person uses physical pain or threat of physical force to intimidate another person. and Sexual Abuse of children or adults includes any sort of unwanted sexual contact perpetrated on a victim by an abuser..and Neglect occurs when a person fails to provide for the basic needs of one or more dependent victims he or she is responsible for.

I think it's usually to do with a power struggle.. and insecurity on both parts (one person would be abusive to feel superior/fulfilled/strong etc and the other might not know how to stop it/be naive/blame themselves/believe that's the best they'll get, blah blah blah. I think that's the foundations of it.

Answer 5

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Insecurity, period.

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Anger blamed on another person.