What causes my shyness to kiss my boyfriend?

Answer 1

Well, honey, there could be a myriad of reasons why you're feeling shy about smooching your man. Maybe you're nervous about your technique, or perhaps you're worried about bad breath. It could even be deeper than that, like fear of intimacy or past experiences. Bottom line, just relax, pucker up, and go for it - life's too short for hesitation!

Answer 2

People make a big deal about kissing someone, but it's not scary(especially if it is your boyfriend. Once you kiss the first time, you won't be scared but don't do anything unless you want it to.

A quote by Einstein

A person starts to live when he can live outside himself. Once you kiss it adds to your relationship. To be truthful I didn't have my first kiss with my boyfriend until 6 month after we started dating. Just because someone is brave it doesn't mean they are not scared and nervous.

Kiss when you are ready to kiss. If he can't respect that, how do you know he will respect YOU? Think about it; add in the factor of how long you guys have been going out (how old you guys are) I have a friend who is 19 and she never kissed some one Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years (I am 13) ,of course we have kissed but its just... stiff, standing up and one of us says "Right, we are going to kiss?" not like flowing, natural. I want us to have a proper romantic kiss, you know? And he gets shy if I kiss his on the cheek or something in public. I love him a lot and we go round holding hands and stuff. I remember , I wanted to kiss him and my one of my friends dared him to kiss me and he stood up and said "This game is stupid! Im not playing!" It really hurt my feelings nut he didn't seem to notice.

Well, then you are asking the wrong question. The question you need to ask is why is he shy to kiss me? You're not the one with the problem, he is he has his reasons and if he wishes to share then he will maybe he is embaressd to kiss you? its not you, you are fine listen, I had a bf at 13 to, i felt like i loved him but my mom says that we were to young to love, I refused to listen to her but in the end she was right i am now 15 and have had 2 bf's

the first bf took 7 months to kiss me. the second kissed me 3 weeks into it it depends on if you are both comfortable with kissing in public. like you said, once in a youth club you are not going to marry him, but if it makes you feel better stand up straight, look him in the eye and ask him why.