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This is committment phobia and having the milk without milking the cow. If after 6 years he wont committ and how dare he say it takes too much effort. Trying to loose 200 pounds takes alot of effort, being yourself and loving someone doesnt take much at all. Sounds like your relationship is onesided, that its his way or no way. This is up to you, 6 years is a long time to throw away but its also 6 years of wasted time because he wasnt thinking of the futures long haul. Its up to you if you want to remain in this relationship, he will keep going with the status quo and that's good for him but is that what you want? You have the right to be happy and have the things you want and need out of a relationship and a "man". Sit down and let him know that a stronger committment needs to be made on his part or you will consider moving on. See if he will start slow and become engaged and then within a years time marry. If not you have your answer........
What else can I help you with?
Why do you want a lover not a boyfriend?
Whoever you are referring to is probably at a point in her life where she doesn't have the time or effort to commit to a close relationship but still wants the gratification of some occasional sexual pleasure.
How do you know if your boyfriend will do anything for you?
puts in effort all the time, does washing up, shopping etc.
How did Americans contribute to the union war effort?
They fought with great courage to save the union and end slavery forever.
How did American Americans contribute to the Union war effort?
They fought with great courage to save the union and end slavery forever.
How did African-Americans contribute to the Union war effort?
They fought with great courage to save the union and end slavery forever.
Your boyfriend is flirting with other girls what should you do?
dump him because he is OBVIOUSLY not worth your effort if he doesn't consider you that important.
How do you know if boyfriend do not want to lose you?
You will know a boyfriend doesn't want to lose you if he shows effort in the relationship. If he seems like he doesn't care then he probably doesn't care about the relationship as much as you do.
How do you get your to be your boyfriend?
make a better effort to specify and make your question clear in order for me or any other user to answer it and clarify your doubts.
My boyfriend knows I've been crying for hours Why isn't he putting effort in to call me?
Your boyfriend may not know how to console you. Boys are very different from girls and don't know how to handle crying girls.
What if your boyfriend like a nother girl and say i like you the most though?
Your boyfriend should only be into you if you guys are together, if he doesn't realize what he has girl than don't waste all your effort on him you'll end up crushed.
What does it mean when your boyfriend wants you to make an effort to be social with his parents and what could you talk about with them as well as him?
People will usually like someone who likes to listen. Try to find out about his parents. Talk to them about what they like, how they met, what they enjoy. In meeting your boyfriend
What if your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore after a mistake you made 6 months ago?
He isn't worth the effort, if you can't accept someone for who they are then you shouldn't be with them
