What do you do if a girl refuses to go out with you?

Answer 1

You accept that she doesn't want to date you, regardless of her reasons. As hard as it may seem, don't beat yourself up over this. Have you known someone who wanted to be with you, someone you thought was a good person but didn't view them romantically? They may have been attractive and a nice person, but there just wasn't any chemistry with them. Also, trying to hang out or being 'just friends' with someone you like can cause you to have false hopes or become hurt if she decides to date someone else. It doesn't mean you have to be rude to her, but it may help you get over your feelings if you distanced yourself from her for awhile.

Answer 2

If you ask her out and she says, "No," then ask another girl out. It does you no good if a girl likes you but won't go out with you. The exception is if she is real good in English and you are not. Then she might mean that you can come over to her house and she will help you with your English homework.

Answer 3

well,if you and the girl/boy you like both want to go on a date tell him/her this plan:if you live 'very' close together,just one of you ask to go on a bike ride for a while,then,the other one you say that to,you both meet in the same place,and go on your date,if you don't live close together,sorry that's all i got :)

PEACE LUV KILL

(thats just a funny expresion)

Answer 4

well just so u no im a girl if tht helps but if she doesn't like u then no matter how hurt u r u need to tell her tht u respect her decision and hope u to can still b friends. then A girl thinks of how mature and confident u r

:) trust mew it works

Answer 2, male standpoint:

As she said above, to show you respect her desicion, great idea! Abseloutly great!! But what if your the kind of guy that takes it hard when you find out? I was there too. I know your pain.

Things to remember:

1:ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD.

2:There are plenty of fish in the sea.

3:There still may be hope... But for that, is a different story.

If a girl you like doesn't like you, dont "stalk" her. Ive seen it too many times and it ends horrendously. Why? Because they feel as though you invade their space and dislike you more.

After you find out the girl doesnt like you, go to friends. Your best friends. Try to laugh with then and all that stuff. It may just ease the pain. Only time can heal that kind of wound completely.

Lastly, dont be mean to her in the future. I had a friend named Greg who was obsesed with this girl. When she told him she doesnt like him, he was cool with it at first. But very soon he became a real ...you know, to her.

Be friendly towards her and maybe, just maybe, she just might fall for you.

Hope this has helped you. My knowledge comes from expirience and being a boy myself, a former shy one at that.

~Hikaru

Answer 5

Alright look. I agree when they say move on and there are other girls, but look I'm in the same ship. Comment on her apperance. Talk to her. what ever can make you friends. You will know if things take off after you become friends. Show her what she is missing! She may not have known you. Girls like to know you well before they make commitments like that. However if it doesn't work after you are friends and you don't feel like she will say yes it is time to look for someone else.

Answer 6

She either shy, or she just wants to be friends.

Answer 7

She's Probably Scared or it depends I'm a girl and sometimes when i really like a guy and he asks me put I say no bcz idk okay

Answer 8

go out on a date and see how it goes. Then make your decision. At least hit it and quit it.

Answer 9

a) keep trying

b) move on