What do you do if you love someone but don't want to be with them?

Answer 1

Love that isn't returned is tough, but is a situation that happens too often in life. The only real thing you can do is to accept the other person's feelings, or lack of feelings, for you. If you truly love them, you'll want them to be happy, even if that means being happy with someone else. Let the other person go their own way, and try to make do in the meantime. You may have to distract yourself with activities, or even date someone else (if you're of appropriate age). Most of us have had to experience loving someone during our lifetime that don't love us back. It hurts, but, in time that hurt does go away. Don't sit around thinking about it, but get out with friends and start dating again. Life is so full of great surprises and any day at anytime you could meet that special someone that will love you back as much as you love them. There is nothing you CAN do. Love is not controlable. Pick yourself up, find something else to obsess on and get over it. This is abrupt advice but it is the naked, unadorned truth. I have been there and it hurts but the pain does subside over time if you allow it to. First and foremost don't assume that this person doesn't love you.Have you told them about your feelings straight up?Was this the answer you got?Well, than the only thing you can do is to let time heal the pain.It will take a long time and time will not erase your memories of them but it will change your life.So your answer is TIME.

Answer 2

That depends on the kind of love. Are they IN love with you? Are you in a relationship?! *in a relationship but not in love: get out, get away. get interested in what you love and get involved. someone who you are NOT into will only drag you down if you stay close to them to passify them. * friend in non-reciprocal love with you: tell them flat out, you are not into it like that. but don't be too final about it, no NEVERs. because one day you just might find that you love them more deeply than you thought you did.

Answer 3

Whenever you get the chance to hang out with them, do. Talk to them so that you can find out more about them and they can find out more about you. Get them to really fall in love with you, and become their very best friend.

If you know the person doesn't love you, let them go, unless you feel you can get them to love you

AnswerTry to move on. But there is ALWAYS a chance, however small that they will one day love you back.

Give her gifts in her birthday ,make her things,do everything and if it doesn't work continue your life with an other girl or if you can't stick with your friends.

If you love or like someone alot and they dont like you or love you, that can be a problem. In my case, i like this girl and she liked me. But then she broke up with me and i am not sure if she still likes me or not. But i STILL like her alot. Anyways, if you think they don't like you, keep being yourself and put on the charm. Make it clear that you want to be with them. And after all of this work, if they still dont respond and just tell you they dont like you, then you have to let it go. You have to realize then, that its just not meant to be and you should find someone else, however hard that might be.

Answer 4

My advice is to let it go. There are many ways of doing so. One way is to not contact the person a lot and let it drift like friendship, another is to say it to their face gently. You as a person must decide what to do, depending on the persons personality and feelings and how they would react. It also depends on how far you are into the relationship.

Answer 5

well if you really really love this person you shouldn't give up because you never no you may have a chance but if the person straight up hates you i think you may need to try and move on. my friend to me that if that boy or girl don't do they part they cant have your heart. So don't stress or push yourself and defiantly don't try and change for any one because that is a big mistake, good luck to you and i hope you get your love

Answer 6

tell them how u feel

Be nice and gentle but don't beat around the bush. You want them to leave you with respect, not hatred. Remember this is someone who cares about you, be nice. Remember FRIEND not FOE

Answer 7

I'm am going through the same situation...and what I have figured out so far is that there could be a number of reasons for not wanting to be with that someone you love...e.g

1. You love them but don't love them enough to be involved in an intense relationship with them.

2. You don't wanna be bound in a relationship already!

3. Maybe you just think that you love them ,but actually it is just a huge crush that would eventually wear off...

Answer 8

If it is a girl don't tell her you love someone else just tell her you weren't meant to be. If its a boy your talking to, tell him about another girl and try to get him to like her.

Answer 9

Take time, do not admit you love the person unless you have been in a long enough relashonship, this is how you can love her with out making a fool of yourself.