What do you do if your best friend hangs out with your worst enemies?

Answer 1

It is alright! Your friend is not your enemy and your enemy will not turn your friend against you. And if your enemy does do this then guess what? This person is not your best friend. Just message me if you need more help!

If my best friend did associate with my enemy.... I would be somewhat mad, wonder if my friend was going to leave me for her, or if they were talking about me.. But then I remembered.. that its my friends choicewho she can hang out with. And she might actually be really good friends with her. Even though I'm not. So i would just be happy for her. But still try to make plans with my best friend so that I don't turn into a third wheeel:) Hope this helps!

Answer 2

Usually you, and your friends have the same interests. So, they are looking for other people like you. Obviously, if they like the other person they might have the same interests as you so, you could try to become friends with them. But if you have real trust issues regarding this other person, the "enemy". You might have to distance yourself from both, and should explain this to your friend. Not as an ultimatum, making them pick between you, and their new friend. But just so they aren't hurt by your with-drawl when they are with this "enemy" of yours.

Answer 3

If you think you're in with a chance of getting together with him/her, then don't let that opportunity slip away from you. However, think carefully before getting together with them. You don't want to risk a good friendship by going out with them. You don't always know how a relationship will end, and if it ends badly then you don't want to end up losing them and *them* becoming you're enemy.

Just think carefully about whether going out with them would be ok. If you think so, then go for it! You shouldn't let you're enemy ruin your life, because that's exactly what they want to do, and you don't want to give in to them do you?

Hope that helped a bit =)

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Answer 4

every time she goes with them just make an excuse too leave.

or if you really wanna step up to the plate tell her you don't like

the people she hangs out with and you want her to stop.

Answer 5

What ever you do, don't get mad and moody at your friend. Try talking to the enemy or have them come over sometime. Or have a heart to heart talk with your friend and tell him or her that you really like them, but it's bothering you that they're hanging out with the enemy,(obviously, don't say that the the person you don't like is your enemy). Is nothing works, try finding a new friend.

Answer 6

ask them to have a talk with you and tell them why you are hanging out with them

Answer 7

befriend your enemy that way you get your friend back and a new friend as well