What do you do when you fall in love with your best friend and your lives are so different that you will never be able to make it work and the worst part is that he doesn't know exactly how you feel?

Answer 1

Never second-guess a situation. How do you know it won't work out? I have friends whose husbands work in oil fields for 6 months at a time while she stays at home and they have been married for years. I also have friends who are married and are from different cultural backgrounds, so never say never! My life is very different from my husbands and I like it like that. We have lots in common in other ways and also a lot more intersting things to talk about because our lives are so different. Once you get over the fact "never say never" when you are next talking to your friend tell him/her that you've had such a great time together (providing they aren't married) what would he/she feel about going out on a real date and testing the waters. Either your friends is going to say yes or no. If they say no then it's time to start dating and still keep this person as your friend. Odd, but when the opposite sex gets together as friends they don't always realize that this is exactly what a good relationship is ... being best buddies, being able to talk to each other about almost anything and that's love! This is why you hear and read on this board that so many people are falling in love with their best friends. Go for it. Good luck Marcy

Answer 2

that's hard because if u want to date him or something or tell him how you feel it could reck it........ but i say go for it... maybe find out before hand how he feels bout u... then go for it! u have to take risks