What do you do when you like your boyfriends best friend?

Answer 1

Look inside yourself. (Theorectically of course.) What comes to your mind when you think of your boyfriend's brother? Do you think, "Aw, yeah! He's totally HOT!" or do you think things like, "Awww! My boyfriend's brother is soo sweet!" Of course I am speaking in general terms. If you feel like your feelings for your bf's brother are more lust than love, then it's just best to ignore these feelings, even though they are deep. If it is love, then what kind of love is it? The rest is up to you, but think to yourself, is ditching your boyfriend for his brother worth all the heartache it will cause?

Answer 2

If you really loved your boyfriend, then you wouldn't be attracted to anybody else. Maybe you should break up with him, since it's obviously not a relationship that you want to be in. That doesn't mean you should go out with his friend, any guy who would go out with his friends recent ex wouldn't make a reliable boyfriend.

Answer 3

• Honesty is the best policy. You should be sure that your boyfriend's best friend feels the same about you. Nonetheless, you should be honest about your feelings to your boyfriend and break up even if his best friend does not feel the same about you. If not then you are living a lie and you are going to really hurt your boyfriend's feelings when he finds out and he will find out. Do the right thing!

Answer 4

Talk it over with ur friend and see if it is ok with her. She is ur BFF after all! Then both of u can figure out what the best way to ask him out!