What do you do when you love someone you can't be with?

Answer 1

Dear friend,

How can u call it to be love when its a person u cant be with.

U would be in love only with the person whom u can be with.Its a feeling of heart possessiveness caring oneness

I think the situation u gave is just ur witha person whom u mightn know or don know but its not the state of being in love .

Answer 2

oh. that's a toughie. well see if u can be friends then slowly try to get closer to them but if they r not into u in that way don't push it, it will only make them feel weird and uncomfortable

Hey i am in the same situation that you are in wether you are a guy or girl i hope this helps you, see i have liked this guy for a long time and i know that i can not be with him at all. He is my brothers best friend for one and we have known each other for 9 in a half years now, so it does cause a dilemma in some ways. But you have to think of the reasons why you can't be with this person and really think hard about those reasons, like me i have thought about those reasons and realized they were dumb and so now i am trying to go after him and so far so good. So think of those reasons that you have wether you are a girl or a guy. And would it hurt to try and see if something could or would happen? Talk Later. Best of Luck.

Answer 3

• The following are ways to get over someone you love:
• Eat a lot of food.
• Get a hobby.
• Get a new mate.

Out of sight, out of mind. Avoid listening to "your song", stop going to "your restaraunts", and maybe move.

Answer 4

There is no such thing as "what if's! You can't get oversomeone if you obviously love them!

However you may have to change the way or degree in which you love them. For example one lady I love very much got married to another guy long before I would have even been ready to ask her myself. I will never "get over" her nor would I ever want to. However I now express my love to her by being available to talk to, trying to help her find ways to get through the tough parts of being married, helping her understand the things about us men that all too frequently confuse women, etc. By doing so my love for that wonderful woman grows daily, even though I am not married to her and never can be. Her happiness with the decisions she made, is far more important to me than any pleasures or pains on my part; which is why I know with absolute certainty that I do indeed love her and always will. I just hope that someday I can meet another lady as wonderful as she is!

I hope you aren't asking about getting over someone you love that hurt you because they did not love you. You are still stuck, as is said above you can't get over them. The best you can do if you really love them is forgive them and let them go. The worst you can do is deliberately try to "unlove" them, as to do so once you do love them will require you to "rip out" a significant part of yourself that once gone may make it difficult to properly love someone else in the future that will indeed love you too.

Answer 5

Focus your energy on something else that interests you. Keep busy. Seek out a good concellor to help you heal. You need to seek out PROFESSIONAL HELP.

Answer 6

You can't. You have to wait and get over him. It took me 8 mounths to get over my ex, and i still don't feel like i'm completly over him. What i am trying to say, is that you can't..

Answer 7

You try to forget them and move on. Unless they were your true love then i guess you try to win them back but if there going out with someone don't break them up just move on.

Answer 8

try hanging out with your friends, focus on a hobbyor just find a new guy/girl to talk to.