What do you do when your husband says he doesn't love you but he doesn't know what to do either?

Answer 1

Dr. Laura has a book, "The Care and Feeding of a Husband". I've heard it's quite good. It's important to sit down (TV off) and communicate with your husband. Make a habit of it. My husband comes home from work, has a shower, then we sit and talk about our day or any problems we need to talk about. By sitting down and asking him what is wrong he may start to confide in you about work or any other personal problems he has. A husband is no different than having a friend and we all know with our friends we are there to discuss any problems they have so why not include the husbands. The above advice by the other poster is a good one and the book is good. Sometimes one must just use their own common sense.

Answer 2

pour out ur heart to him.tell him exactly how u feel.remind him of all the good times and show him how they still affect u.if he has no sympathy then wut the hell?it just wasnt meant to be.u deserve better anyways.

Answer 3

It would be good to sit and talk with him if possible however, inevitably you will have to hear why he may not feel that way anymore and it will hurt but maybe you could suggest therapy if he is willing.

Somewhere along the line he has forgot why he married you in the first place and that is common unfortunately but getting comfortable isn't always good for both parties. He obviously feels he is missing something that once was. You both have to get back to the roots of why you love one another to begin with. If you find it cannot work unfortunately sometimes - time- is what is needed. Good Luck and if I can be an ear or help use my messageboard.

Answer 4

See if he will go to marriage counseling. Good luck and God Bless:)