What do you do when your scared about trusting your boyfriend?

Answer 1

If you don't trust someone there has to be a reason behind it. Is he a flirt and does he take your feelings into consideration? Has he done something in the past that you are afraid he will do again? Does he cover up his actions with lies? If you question his behavior does he explain without getting upset? Does he treat you with respect? If there is no trust in a relationship than it is time to move on. If you were hurt by him but believe he will not hurt you again the trust will come over time. But if you were hurt by him and did not get everything from him to put your mind at ease than nothing will get you to trust him again and it would be in your best interest to move on from that relationship. Trust is essential to any happy, sound relationship. If you can't restore trust - and that needs to be a joint effort, then it's almost certainly the start of a serious deterioration in the relationship.

Answer 2

Trust is key in any relationship. If you can't trust him then there's really no point. It leads to conflict and drama and headaches. No one needs to go through that, because it always ends on bad terms anyway.

Answer 3

dump his behind he is obvisously not good enuff for you.....u can do way better.... In order to have a relationship, you must have three things; Love, committment and above all, trust. If you can't trust a boyfriend then you should either give up on him, or work on your problems, he may have a totally different reason for being so "untrustworthy". You will never know until you talk to him. But, if he is cheating, he will mostly likely slip up and saying something on accident, so pay close attention when he talks to you.

Answer 4

just u can try 2 trust him but if he gives a reason not 2 trust him then watch every where he goes ask him if u can see his phone and if he says y r no then he is hinding some10 and if u do get ahold of his phone and it has a gurlz # and it wz early r really late then watch him where evr he goes and if he kisses her then hez so not a trustin type sp hez not worth it done bi mz veal

Answer 5

trust him or leave him. how would you feel if the one you loved didnt trust you? worthless i would imagine. innocent until proven guilty right? give him the honor and show trust . if he breaks that trust, then you can dump him.many cheat, but most deserve the benifit of the doubt, until proven otherwise. good luck!

Answer 6

well i would go to the divorce place and or get a spy that would work