What do you say to a guy after he asks you out?

Answer 1

there are differen't ways to asking a guy out. whichever one you choose to spring for just make sure it fits your current relationship status WITH that person. if you are already friends, try to get information first from mutual friends about how he feels about you. guys don't care about keeping intimate secrets and 'personal information' to themselves. if they really love you, they will want to talk about you and share the 'awesome girl they know' with their friends.

...if you don't know him, are not his friend, but just have a crush/obsession over him and think he's cute.. you might want to try talking to him on a regular basis first. MAKE YOURSELF even just a small part of his life. (if you are unwanted, you will know) this is because if some girl (he find physically attractive) AKA-you, comes up and randomly asks him out he might say yes, do to the fact you are pretty and may be a good kisser. sometimes, that's mainly what guys think about. (not all the time, but often) it's important to MAKE HIM FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR PERSONALITY FIRST, and THEn your body and lips can come after. if he doesn't know you but his inclined motive is how you look, and you get involved... here's what COULD POTENTIALLY happen (no offense):

-you get involves, have a very romantic and intimate lovelife

-you may struggle with your differences the more you know about each other

-he may end up dumping you, because as we all know... there's always going to be that more beautiful-er person out there... somewhere.

hope this helps!!! and let me know if your his friend already or not so i can give you further guidance if wanted!!

Another person: well to me yes well see the thing is i like too guys!!! One is my ex who one of my friends also likes.... and two is this cute guy who i just started becomming friends with now i wanna no what if i would say if i do end up asking one of them out!!!!

Answer 2

Well I suggest not just standing there and akwardly staring at him. Usually you guys would exchange numbers and hug when you guys next see eachother. It's usually good to have a friend with you so he/she can be like.. YAYAY and make it less akward. But if he/she knows what he/she is doing, then it should just go smoothly. But ya, after the "no man's land" phase of him asking you out, then everything is much better. Now if you want to say no, say "Thanks but I'm sorry. I don't really see you in that way."