What does it mean when you can't stop thinking about your guy friend?

Answer 1

You need to ask yourself.. "can I ever think of him as more of a friend?" , "do i really like him?" , and "if we went out would this effect our relationship as friends?"

Be a little bit more flirty around him and see how he reacts to this. If he does the same back have him make the first move. (girls usually hate making the first move.) And see how the relationship goes. If the relationship does not go well, then if he is a nice guy then you to can continue to be friends. (:

Answer 2

it works both ways . if you really like someone then you tend to think about them a lot . facts proven boys like girls twice as much as you like them & you think about the bad things you said or if you acted funny or embarised yourself you seem to keep thinking about it . i recomend talking to him and telling him how you feel im 14 and have been with a boy for a year now and its working out well so i think you should take my advice ..

Answer 3

oh i see that very hard to stop thinking about someone i still have the same problem about my older cousin me and her are like sisters and i really wish i could see her. When ou cant stop thinking about someone it means you are having strong loving feelings towards them because they have been nice to you in a special way and you remember them dearly. so try to get your self busy if these things happen becaus i sometimesnormally get upset even if i think about my grandad (RIP) whom has died. hope ths information has helped you! sorry if it has'nt just message me to tell me what i have done wrong!

Answer 4

Well...since this appears to be a personal question...

I for one can't stop thinking about a girl because of the way she smiles. Those rare happy smiles that she only gives you if she's truly happy.

And her eyes. They're like little pieces of the sky on a moonless night, a dark window into her soul that bares her heart out when she is at her happiest and saddest of moments.

Not to mention hair. It's so soft and smooth. I cherish the few moments I have had running my fingers through it and can't wait for the next chance I do get to feel her dark locks slipping between my fingers like liquid silk.

Also her skin. It so soft and smooth that when I ran my fingers over her copper skin I almost died. I seriously thought I might have been having a heart attack.

And don't even get me started on her lips and her figure! Her lips are so soft and full. I could spend forever just looking at them, and the rest of eternity kissing them. Boy does she not give herself credit. She has one of the nicest figures ever, no kidding. She doesn't have a big breatsts amd wide hips or anything, but her petite figure is quite attractive and I personally think she looks drop dead gorgeous.

But most of all, her personality. I have never met a nicer, more caring, or understanding person in my entire life. Even after I admitted my feelings to her she didn't reject me. We still have deep conversations like before and it's almost like nothings changed except for that look.

It's almost guilt, but mostly warning. Right now she's dating someone else so if we get to touchy, even if it's just a dare, she backs off. She told me before that the person she's dating wouldn't like how close we get, even for dares, and that is another reason why I can't stop thinking about her.

The fact that I want to be with her but can't makes me think day and night about her. I'm also very guilty because the person she's dating happens to be one of my close friends and I feel like my feelings are a sign of betrayal.

Even then I can't stay away from her and won't give up hope...The fact that even though compared to her I'm nothing but an ugly pigeon compared to a beautiful dove I'll never give up hope. I'll wait for her and until I hear a "it will never happen" from her lips. Until then I'll always be hopeful for us...but...if she does reject me...then I try to make her happy...even if it won't be with me.

I know its cheesy, but all I want is for her to be happy. Just seeing her smile and laugh in the arms of someone else will make me happy...because if she's happy I'll be happy too because her happiness is all I care about.

Answer 5

• Well nothing happens besides wanting that person even more than the thirty seconds before. Just go ahead and talk to the person already otherwise those feelings will only get worse!

Answer 6

Distract yourself by keeping busy.

Hang out with friends. Get out and do the things you love.

Answer 7

You tell him straight: "I am attracted to you.", there is no point playing games, it is better to get it off your chest, if he doesn't feel the same way then concentrate on something else.

Answer 8

If you really like somebody, your natural response is to think about that person.

Answer 9

It's normal to not stop thinking about one's crush. It's part of it.

Answer 10

i will make the boy mine........