What does it mean when your ex-girlfriend whom you were not that nice to now avoids even talking to you but at first she was friendly and she has not phoned in a month?

Answer 1

She might still have feelings for you but thinks you dont feel that way so she wants to move on and not get her heart bulldozed over once again.Call her up if you still have feelings for her. Dont wait for her to do this. She probably wont even if she really wants to. Talk to her, be nice to her and try to stay friends with her.. You weren't nice to her? Sounds like she got the message and has moved on. Would you want to speak to someone who was not that nice to you after having been in a relationship? It sounds like she's a smart girl who refused to be mistreated. Maybe you could apologize for 'not being that nice' to her before and tell her you hope you can be friends? Just an idea. Or respect and learn from the fact she has moved on.

Answer 2

Most likely she has realized that trying to reconcile with you is futile and has decided to move forward from there. If the woman you treated badly then dumped still wanted contact with you, probally has self esteem issues. If she has not called you for a month she has found someone else to treat her badly.