What does your ex-girlfriend want if she broke up with you because you reacted badly toward her yet she still calls you but says there's not a good chance of getting back together?

Answer 1

Your ex-girlfriend wants to 'have her cake and eat it too." She can't detach herself from the relationship, but she wants her ultimate freedom. She probably sees the positives about you and still wants her daily dose of that (whether it's your company, affection, intimacy, fun, whatever). However, if she broke up with you she is obviously feeling like she wants freedom, or someeone else, or she doesn't see a future in the relationship. The best thing you can do, in my opinion, is to not talk to her. She broke it off, therefore she needs to stand by her decision. It's very unfair of her to send you these mixed signals - so you need to make it loud and clear to her that either you're on or you're off. Be strong, and stand firm . . . and try to fill your own void with activities and friends, so you don't weaken. Good luck!

Answer 2

The question is ... do you care about her? It's time you grew up, and even if you don't want to get back together again at least apologize for the way you treated her. If you wonder how you are acting, then before you act out ask yourself if you would like to be treated like that. It was you that reacted badly towards her, but that doesn't mean she can just stop on a dime from caring about you. You can either be a man and tell her it's over, or tell her you're sorry and improve on the relationship. The ball is in your court ... man or boy!