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If you have conflicted feelings of having done the wrong thing after you have left your abuser which is the Right things that is normal. It shows that you have a conscience, loyalty and such. However, the thing to do is to remember that, you did the right thing for the right reasons, so you do not need to revisit the decision. Maybe, it is because it took so long to consider leaving that your brain just habitually goes there. If you turn your mind to other things, then that will help you pass through this time. Eventually, you will be looking forward and not back.
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Victims of abuse are traumatized. Many of them develop PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). One should feel; angry, resentful, broken hearted, depressed, and crying many tears. Crying is the bodies way of healing itself. You need to get it out or it will cause illness in your body. You should work on forgiving yourself too. Possibly antidepressants might help you, maybe Lexapro, ask your Doctor.
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Depress of course.
What else can I help you with?
What types of abuse can one be prosecuted for other than physical abuse or uttering threats?
Urinating on the victim, defecating on the victim, and sticking things in the victim's pooper unexpectedly
When will a victim of abuse leave?
Tommorow :)
Why might the victim of long-term emotional abuse still want out of the marriage even if the abuser seems to be trying to change?
There are hurt feelings. She still sees the past, it is hard to forget that. Because the victim knows the man probably wont change.
What are the signs of teen abuse?
Signs of teen abuse can vary from victim to victim. Some signs of teen abuse are poor school performance, trouble concentrating and sleeping, poor eating and depression.
What preposition go with victim?
The preposition "of" is typically used with "victim," as in "victims of crime" or "victims of abuse."
Should a victim who has been researching abuse demand to be treated with respect by their abuser in exchange for stopping their research?
No. And you can't bribe someone to treat you well. Either the person is going to respect you or they aren't. You can't say, "Tell you what, treat me well and I'll stop researching abuse." If you're the victim, you have no leverage. The abuser has all the control. The victim is usually not in the position to be making deals and demands. The only thing that will stop the abuse is getting away from the abuser. ~ T
How do you help a victim of emotional and mental abuse when the victim continues to endure the abuse?
You must try with all your heart to get this person professional help, the sooner the better, one thing will lead to another until the abuse becomes physical AND IT WILL EVENTUALLY!!!
Do abusive men constantly break up with their girlfriends to gain control?
Yes some can, but they will never truly leave their "victim" alone. It's a form of mental abuse. The victim usually finds it very difficult to be on their own or, they are terrified their abuser will actually come back into their life. Abusers love to "put down" their victim and make them hurt. Abusers can have several women in their lives (he may not abuse all of them), but, because of their abusive nature they know they can always come back into the victim's life and they do! Only the person being abused can stop this cycle of abuse.
Abuse and harm effects on individuals?
Abuse definitely has a strong effect on the victim. The pain that the individual receives from the abuser, whether physical or mental, has a negative influence on the way the victim lives his or her life. With physical abuse, the physical abilities of the victim may be impaired for a temporary or permanent time span. With mental abuse, the victim may suffer from depression because of the abuse he or she has been forced to deal with. Also, the victim may have low self esteem because the individual believes that he or she is being abused because of his or her worthlessness.
Are you truly the victim of domestic abuse?
No, I'm not. Are you? What kind of dumb question is this?
How does it hurt a victim?
Abuse hurt a victim in many ways. It makes them have low self-esteem and cause them to live a life of fear. Abuse can also continue through an abused person by them abusing other people as they were abused. Thus the cycle of abuse continues.
Is abuse fun or dangrouse?
abuse can be fun to the person doing it but the victim of the abuse my find it very uncomfortable and so the answer to the question is that abuse is a horrible act and you can be prosecuted if caught doing to people.
