then maybe you should be just friends
just tell the guy your sorry and that you dont like him or her but say it nice and tell him that you're still his friend.
No matter what you say, you're going to hurt his feelings. Just tell him you have alot of things going on with your family right now.
tell him " i have more feelings for u then just as a friend "
it usally means that he has feelings for you and wants to know what you see in a guy so he can be that guy or hes just worried for you
I think the reason is because you do have feelings for him but, they are just hidden within your friendship feelings.
Listen to your feelings. If he behaves this way with your friend, why would he act any different with you ? Also, will you have a friend if you are the other woman in their relationship ?
just let him know that you re starting to have feelings for them. and if they are really your friend, no matter what they will be there
Tell him, "If I had feelings for him, I'd be his girlfriend.
Just going to have to tell her how you feel pretty much.
tell him to find someone who likes him and who isn't taken. be there for him and be a great friend he just might develop feelings for you instead! :)
I have a similar situation. My best friend has had a crush on the guy I like and has never told me about it, and she says that if he comes to her that she'll take him regardless of what my reaction is. But since this is your BOYFRIEND, prove to her that she won't get him. Prove that you two will be together for a long time, or just tell your boyfriend about it. If your friend has asked you not to, just say it. "This is my boyfriend. If he's going out with me, he's going out with ME. It makes me really uncomfortable that you have feelings for the guy I'M in a relationship with." However, if she hasn't actually told you up front about her feelings towards him, keep looking for signs and then confront her. Hope this helps!
You can have a guy friend that is just a guy but sometimes your relationship can turn into more than just friends. If you have a guy friend that likes you, ask yourself if you are comfortable with going out with him if he wants to. Or maybe you can just stay really good friends. It is different with different people. You might want to ask him. Hope that helped you! :D