What if you are 13 and have a boyfriend?

Answer 1

Its not necessarily a bad thing as long as you are emotionally capable of it,thirteen is not only the beginning on your teen years but also when you go through puberty so its natural to feel attracted towards the opposite sex.

In my opinion its perfectly fine to have a boyfriend,most thirteen year olds are far more mature than the adults give them credit for plus you will only learn from your relationships and grow.

However,please be carefull about who it is that your dating and how much you know about him and the reasons your dating him,if your emotionally ready you will have all the right reasons to be with him and not just be dating him because he's the popular jock your friends have a crush on(in which case you will probably get hurt in the end.)

Also dont be pressured into anything physical that you may not feel ready to do,if your boyfriend is your age or older,he will definitely want the relationship to progress physically but it is in your hands how far you want it to go,if your uncomfortable doing something or not ready for something please listen to your gut and refrain from it.

You have all your life to explore physical relations with someone,thirteen is too young and you dont want to regret your decision and give yourself away to someone who's not ready or capable yet of understanding what youre worth.

Goodluck.

Answer 2

Then you have a boyfriend when you're 13.