What if you found out your husband dressed up as a girl?

Answer 1

I think you should talk to him about it. Many types of clothing that seem as though they are women's could be worn by either sex; the Scottish kilt for example. Perhaps he has male breasts. Perhaps they feel better than male underwear, perhaps he was trying out for a play where men play women's parts (as they used to do a long time ago). If he is a man who just likes to wear women's clothing, then you will have decide how important an issue that is to you. Just because he wears the clothing of the opposite sex hardly seems to be a big deal, unless, he has other behavior that is harmful to the marriage.