What if you love someone and she loves you back but she doesn't want to be with you because of the past arguments and your best friend is now dating her?

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What have you done to get around all the anger and arguing and what has she done about it? Takes two. Sometimes people aren't compatible as much as we would like them to be. If she loved you she wouldn't have a boyfriend, especially your best friend.

Think of this as a learning curve, and you now know you have to find another type of girl who can give you a run for your money and not argue all the time. Also, you have to be honest with yourself and find out why these past arguements occured and was some of it your fault. These experiences is how we build character in ourselves. It's time to move on and you'll find someone in the future.

AnswerI think that is just an excuse on her part. Why then is she dating your best friend? How could she possibly love you (even as a friend) only to date your best friend. Knowing that that would hurt you. And what is he thinking by dating her? Arguments are a part of relationships. You will disagree at some point in your relationship. This is just an easy excuse by her. If she really wanted to work things out with you, this is a piece of cake compared to what other people are going through like, cheating, a selfish and inconsiderate partner, or someone that isn't giving the right attention to a relationship that it deserves. No, this just an easy excuse to break it off and not be with you. Let her see that you are content and moving on (even if it doesn't feel that way inside). Be happy and as a matter of fact around her. Date several girls and treat them the way you would have wanted to treat her. But only date them, do not commit (unless you really hit if off with one of the new girls. AND, DO NOT REBOUND) Word will get around and your ex will want you back as a result. Especially when she sees how many girls you are dating and how well you treating them. But the key is to show that you are content and happy. Get a new look that you are pleased with be it a new haircut, grow your hair in, a new way of dressing, etc. She will see that you are willing to make a change. If it were me, the lazy excuse of the arguments would be enough for me to just avoid her all together.