What if your long distance boyfriend won't meet you halfway?

Answer 1

Typically long-distance relationships don't work out. If you don't want to move with him, I'd recommend breaking up and being friends instead--and start looking for a new boyfriend. Besides, if your relationship were so solid that it were meant to last he wouldn't be moving so far away--or he would have discussed moving together with you.

if you havent known themthat long say goodbye if its getting serious say long distance! thinkabout going to to the same college

Answer 2

When a man and woman have met online,

there is always the hope and expectation that one day the two of you will eventually meet in person to take the initial relationship to the next level.

When the two of you live a long distance apart from each other, and let's just assume that long distance means you live more than a 2 hour drive apart, then that special day can be a ways off before you meet.

This will necessitate you two becoming acquainted long distance, using email, webcam,

and phone to build the foundation of your relationship.

When you two live a few hundred miles apart, I recommend that you aim to meet within 6 weeks of your initial contact. When you aim for 6 weeks, it can still take a bit longer than that. However, by aiming for a short time

frame, that means you two are making it a priority to meet in person. Allow your potential mate up to about 90 days to meet you. Give them some flexibility because they will need to pay for the travel as well as might need to arrange for a few vacation days before taking the journey of love to meet you.

Additionally, I recommend that the man actually travel to the woman's location. This is not just for old fashioned chivalrous mores. This is to protect the woman's physical safety. It is not just her physical safety with him. It's to protect her from problems of traveling to an unfamiliar city and venue. When the relationship is long distance, you want to have others present if even at a bit of a distance across the restaurant when you two meet for the very first time.

Mature men who are relationship motivated and not just looking for an online

girlfriend where he doesn't have to make any kind of personal effort in his behavior, protection, and provision to win her understand this.

So, if your long distance boyfriend won't meet you halfway, then I recommend you examine your heart to start. How did he meet you? Is he the one driving the impetus to meet in person? Or is he perfectly content to let things remain long distance as they are? Is it the distance or the time

frame at which he is balking? See if there is a little bit of room to negotiate with him to demonstrate your feminine flexibility. It's not that you are being rigid with him, it is you are being safety conscious.

And then ultimately, if he still will not meet you and aim to travel to you, then is he really the man for you? While of course it would initially hurt to release him and look for love closer to home with a man who wants to be with you in person, perhaps that will be what you choose in the long run.

Answer 3

Go see him