Women by nature are jealous of the other woman so they have a tendency to blame the mistress in the affair and even when the mistress harasses the wife, but it is the husband in this case that should stop the harassment because he started it all. Get tough with the husband and ignore the mistress; the ball is in his court.
First, if you are unhappily married you should most definitely talk about it with your husband. See if there is something he can do differently to increase your happiness. Otherwise, move to Egypt. To stop your emotional affair (if you decide to leave your husband you dont have to) turn the person against you by avoiding them, so they constantly diss you so you no longer have your emotional affair.
Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.
There are many reasons for him to wait for a right time. Obviously he doesn't want her to let anyone know about the affair so he won't risk the chances of her telling others. For another he couldn't just blurt it out one day when he sees her that would hurt her and even though she is a mistress he did love her at one point.
you try to fight it but if it gets out of hand u must stop being friends to keep ur relationship going
That depends upon your reason. If you do contact the wife, be aware that most assuredly "he" will then end your affair. If you are angry with "him" and want revenge by contacting the wife to stir up trouble, he will most likely end your affair, repair his home life, and later simply find another "mistress" with whom to spend his time. In this situation, the only one who benefits by you contacting the wife is the new mistress. ANSWER: There's only 2 reason why a mistress will contact the wife of the man she is having an affair with. First; you probably want to stop the affair but he said no? Second; you wanted to get in touch with his wife because you want this married man to have a life with you, so making trouble is the only way so if his wife finds out, he will be force to move out. So what will be your leverage if you do this. Like the other person said, if you do it this married man will stop seeing you. And you don't really have to rights to destroy this woman, don't you agree?
There have been all sorts of unplanned consequences resulting from an affair, besides STIs and pregnancies. In some affairs, the other person becomes a stalker or blackmails the cheating spouse; the affair partner (other woman/other man) harasses and threatens the betrayed spouse, the betrayed spouse harasses the affair partner. Even worse, there have been murders and suicides as a result of an affair. There's no way to predict what person will be set off by the results of an affair. ANSWER: AS far as I know yes there are some mistress that do no stop harassing the wife. I'm not sure how dangerous a mistress are, but I will use my past experience. When I discovered my husbands love affair, it automatically changed their life together. She said I ruined her life with my husband, and some other stuff. To me it's my husbands fault why she become this way, even they met on a dating site, it was him who pursue her even if she was still married. And because he fell in love with her but unfortunately I discovered their affair, he stop seeing her. That woman still part of my life even I don't have a life with the man that I married. But this is what the mistress is been doing, to make my life with my children miserable.
Hopefully, he feels like the horrible person that he is. ANSWER: The are some married man who do feels bad because he had to stop the affair with his mistress. But when it comes to how he feels every time he sees his ex mistress, he could be thinking 2 things. One is he probably thinking that if he didn't cross the path of infidelity, his life will not be a mess from his wife. Second is he don't hold himself responsible towards you as his ex mistress. Reason is you were also willing participant with the affair. So if I were you, I will stop thinking how he feels, move on and stop being around him. there are tons of single men out there you can find. And one thing you need to know, this married man didn't hurt you, you both hurt each others be committing a sin.
ANSWER:It's going to be a little tricky, especially if you fell in love with the person you had the affair with. But if this is your final decision, you can do it. All you have to do is stop, don't call the person nor write to him or her. If you are married, talk to your spouse and open up..
You don't - and if you both feel you need to you both should not be with your spouses or in committed relationships, get a divorce - then you can do whatever you want. Think of it this way how would you feel if your spouses were doing this behind your backs. Affairs never end good so be realistic about this and stop what does not and should not be started to begin with.
You shouldn't even stay married to him if that happens! ANSWER: I did mine, and yes our husband has the choice to do it if they want to. But the question is will it be the right thing to do if the husband still kept the communication from his mistress ( ex). If the spouse wont stop, this is a sign that no matter what you ask him he will ignore you, is showing that he can't live without being connected with his mistress.
Good question, could he, it will depend on how bad or if he fell in love with his mistress. It didn't matter how bad he felt for having an affair, if he really feeling guilty why didn't he stop after the first time he slept with his mistress. Could he be con by her again, he could if he loves this other woman. The funny thing about some married man who had an affair, they will tell us how bad they felt because they got caught, but were they feeling bad when they were doing it, they are not. I haven't seen a married man yet who felt bad after they first time he slept with the other woman. I have one good example that was told to me, the man that I married told me that he just can't stop after the first time he slept with his mistress when he was having an affair. He told me that it's like eating an apple, you have to bite it a few more times to see how good the rest of it.