Is there any ways to forget a boy who i have a major crush on and im another boy so yes im gay so it makes it more harder to bear so someone please help me?
Since you call it a crush, then you know at least on some level,
that you are infatuated with this boy. It also sounds like you have
resigned yourself to not being able to be in a relationship with
him. Right now, everything about this lad lights your fire, and you
adore him with all your being. So, asking yourself to "forget"
somebody like that is almost impossible! The good thing is, this
intense level of adoration fades over time. The important thing is
to not let your intense love of this individual, turn to hate if he
does not return your affections. You should also be sensitive to
the fact that he may be uncomfortable with your adoration. Males,
especially at a young age, are not always very sure of their
orientation themselves, or may find attention from another boy
causes them to question their own sexuality. If you are already
friends with this person, then just relax a little bit, and let him
know you really enjoy his company and see what happens. If you love
him from afar, best proceed with caution. If you feel that he would
react badly to your attentions, and perhaps dislike or hate you as
a result, then you may rest confidently assured that this is not a
person worthy of your love to begin with, and set your sights
elsewhere. Just as an aside, this answer was written by a guy who
is straight, married, with a child. I felt qualified to answer this
question because it really isn't about being gay, it's about love,
which is universal. Good luck to you, I wish you love and
happiness.
Before I say anything else, I'll say the above answer is a good
one. I am a gay teenager who regulary falls for straight boys. As
said above, if they find out, they are very... uncomfortable.
Normally if they know you're gay it doesn't really make a
difference, but when they know you like them that is a completely
different story. Try and be friends with them... and be grateful
for what little you can get (the love of friendship).
If you really feel the need to tell them, get them at a quiet
moment, or text/msn them, telling them how you feel, but saying you
don't won't this to ruin the present level of relationship (which
may be friendship, or may be associatism (don't know if I said that
word right)).
Best comes around, they turn out to be gay, and voila, all your
fantasies come try. Worst comes to worst, they hate you and are
totally freaked out, but hopefully this won't happen. Hopefully
they will understand the courage it took for you to tell them and
accept it, and still be friends with you.