What is required to love?

Answer 1

About Love!Yes, of course, this is the big question! If I could only love someone my life would be complete! But love is just some temporal, visceral high that will disappear with the vagaries of a relationship. When two people move together because they are in love, the first thing that happens will be a clash of personalities. Two different lives combining imposes some restriction on individual expression.

So, if you should love someone, understand that "love" does not automatically enhance a relationship. Yes, it is a wonderful feeling. Let me also state that I am still in love with my wife of 42 years. But our relationship has more to do with our assimilation, our alikeness that is based more on our intimacy and mutuality than on love. Yes, I still buy her flowers, but I hope that expresses my feeling of intimacy and mutuality. Read more on these subjects in Meyer's "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters." Don't adhere to what society impose on us humans about what it takes to love someone be it their religion, race, or background. IF you want to love someone do just that. LOVE should noy have any restricktion OR limition on who you love!

Answer 2

Well fist you have too be open to love and not still like your ex you must believe you can find love and be dating someone or be with someone you must really care and you must think that person cares about you most important you must be your self to love anyone because if your not your self it's not true.