What is the disadvantages of early marriage?

Answer 1

I'm 34. I was 22 the day of my first marriage. I was 27 the day of my second. I was getting married while all my friends were dating. In retrospect, I made no mistakes. Your understanding of yourself and your needs changes as you age. If I could travel back in time, would I tell myself not to get married? Yes, I would. But my younger self would tell me all the reasons he believed he should get married, and he'd do it anyway.

I don't know of anything more challenging in life than relationships (except maybe fatherhood). I don't really expect that to change too much. If I was sipping coffee with you right now, I would probably ask you why you're considering marriage. I would try to shine light on the deeper meaning behind the idea. What are your hopes? What are your expectations? Does your partner share the same ones? I would ask you about economics. I'd tell you that while I know that 'economics' is probably the least romantic word to think of when you're considering marriage, you need to take a hard look at it. I'd mention that if you don't think about it now, you will have to address it later, and it will most likely happen through conflict between you and your partner. I'd ask if the sex was good enough to last you....forever? And most importantly, is your friendship and interest in one another strong enough to carry you through times when you can't be intimate for whatever reason?

I don't know of any 'negative' effect of an early marriage to be honest with you. Your relationship will bring you pleasure and pain whether you are married or not. Getting married will give you tax breaks. If you have a lot of $ or some property, it would be at risk.

In the end, you have to feel open and uplifted when you think about getting married. It just has to feel like the right step to take at this moment in your life, regardless of what others are telling you. Best of luck~

Answer 2

Some effects of early marriage can be:

domestic violence

dependence

feeling of being locked up or trapped

loss of confidence

quick divorce

alienation

abuse

feeling that you lost you teen years

feelings that you missed out on important teen events like proms, graduation

missing out on things you could have done, like going to school or pursuing dreams

The lives of children from early marriages can also be effected.

Answer 3

If you get married early then it usually has a negative effect, as you get older you will grow more mature and have enough experience of life to work on a marriage and to recognise what is needed for a successful marriage. If you get married early though you may just see how amazing the other person is and can think that they won't make the mistakes that others might make, you need to see that they aren't perfect and that you may grow apart instead of growing together. If you do love each other though and are prepared to work at it and not back out at the first hurdle then wait a little while until marriage and then if you both still feel the same way then you can consider it again. If you do get married then just remember that it is a serious commitment and that you should stick at it no matter what.

Sorry for the long answer:) but hope it helped x

Answer 4

Some of the disadvantages of getting married early include making bad financial decisions, not knowing how to pay bills or run a household, not having the maturity to deal with problems, and growing apart from your husband or wife as you grow older.

Answer 5

Here are a few answers:

1. Marrying too quickly

2. Financial hardship

3. Lack of emotional maturity

4. Being overwhelmed by parental responsibilities

5. Personality clashes

Answer 6

Some disadvantages of early marriage include the immaturity of young relationships. There is also a lot of pressure from peers when your young.

Answer 7

Becoming a parent earlier, getting divorced and remarried more.

Answer 8

early parenthood

Answer 9

don't know each other well enough yet