You will have to discuss this with your wife, and choose between 3 options:
1. your wife may apologize and agree to remain faithful in the future, and you may accept the apology;
2. you may consider this to be inexcusable and demand a divorce,
3. you & your wife may agree that fideltiy is not really required in your particular marriage, and both of you are free to have affairs if you so desire (meaning that you would have what is officially known as an "open marriage").
what do you mean should you let her have an affair. If you wife wanted to have an affair she does not need your approval. Did, you get her approval. You sound somewhat stupid.
* It might be best to ignore it, after all, it may not be true! * I think you it would be a great place to start after all you responded to her husband. You might learn what a greaseball your "boyfriend" is.
Infidelity is the second phase of emotional affair. During the emotional affair of the married man, sex is not included, but the connection is becoming stronger and personal for both of them. Infidelity is the next step because sex is already happening and the married man will have the behavior of missing the other woman who is not his wife or partner.
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No. Let sleeping dogs lie.
No, keep cheating and dont get caught.
If you are a girl then yes maybe. But if you are a guy you should not be married If she has another boyfriend
It is not illegal in the US to have an affair. However, it may be in other countries.
Wife? No. Ex-wife would be more correct.
Just let it go unless you want to lose the wife's friendship also.
No.First of all you are lieing to three people,the wife/hasband,girlfriend/boyfriend and to yourself.No human relasionship is healthy if it is a secret.
Depends on why you are having the affair to begin with? If it is because your wife isn't satisfying you physically or emotionally then there is some grounds to want to treat her differently. If your having the affair just because then you have no right to treat her differently. All in all I think you should try to talk to her about the root of what is causing you to have the affair. It is never healthy to be married to one person while engaging in a physical and emotional relationship with someone else. All it does is create distance which useless results in divorce.