If he has cheated on you more than once that you know of then keep walking! If this is the first time he's cheated, people make mistakes and give him a chance, but don't make it easy for him to slide back into your life or he won't respect you. Believe it or not you are in total control of this situation. Make him work his butt off by gaining your trust back. Never make it easy, but also learn when enough is enough so you don't discourage him. Meet with him and say, "You have broken a bond of trust between us, but I realize people can make a mistake. I don't trust you 100% so you're going to have to earn it. Meanwhile, I'm going to just go on with my life and if you want to date you phone me like anyone else!" It makes men crazy when you say this because they never quite understand where a woman's mind is coming from. It's simple really ... it means that you are willing to date him, but you don't trust him 100% and you aren't going to commit to him fully until he proves himself to you. This also means that you are free to date whomever you wish to date. Nice position to be in girl! Give it all you've got! Good luck Marcy == Just keep a safe disatance and be "just friends" with him. Date other men. Hang out with other people. This actually happened to me years ago. Caught my fiance screwing around on me big time. Wrote him a tactful letter not so nice that basically said as far as jerks go he takes the cake. I let him go and got involved with someone else who just happened to be his best friend. It hurt him big time but i wasnt about to go back because i found someone better. And like an idiot i let the better guy slip away several years later.
It is clear he must have a cheating problem so you should leave him alone
If you have to ask this question, you already know the answer. You are no better to him than the other girls he has had.
It is too bad you chose to cheat on your boyfriend and that is when you should have broken up the relationship. People make misakes and now that you want to break up you should choose a quiet moment alone with your boyfriend and tell him that you no longer feel the same about him, but don't add salt to his wound by telling him you cheated on him. Don't say those weary words, 'it's me not you' because no one believes that any longer. Yes, he will be hurt, but his destiny is taking him somewhere he should be and he will meet the right girl that should be in his life.
It is best to leave your boyfriend alone and he might come back to you. It is codependence when one or both people can't be alone. It is best to be interdependent.
That is up to you.No one can really tell you how to run your relationship with your boyfriend.
If you've firmly asked him to leave you alone and he refuses, you can visit your local police department to have a restraining order issued. Depending on the scenario, this will prevent him from calling you or coming within "X-many" feet of you. That generally does the trick. His failure to comply with this order could result in his immediate arrest.
you should just leave him alone,because its possible he didnt know and its her fault not his she made the desition to cheat
She has a boyfriend so leave well enough alone. You obviously blew it so now you are going to have to pay the consequences for your own actions and it's time you learned something from this experience. When or if she should break up with this boyfriend is your time to move in, but be sure you have matured more before calling her up. This is all a lie.
Honesty is always the best policy. When you are alone and you know you have proof he was cheating and not secondhand gossip, tell him you know he's cheated and then it's up to you whether you want to continue on with the relationship. Think very hard about staying with your boyfriend because he may just cheat again and even if he doesn't he has broken that bond of trust you had for him.
He should be pleased just to have you and that alone. If he isn't satisfied with you, then he doesn't deserve you.
Give it time. If they prove themselves after time, then you should trust them. Everyone deserves a second chance. ANSWER: It will take time for you to give back the trust that your boyfriend took away from you. The feeling of betrayal will linger for a while but you can do something about this, by making yourself busy. Go out with your close friends like the way you use to before. Try not to be alone because you feel hurt, this is not a good times to be alone. I know because it happens to me.
He should leave them alone ! Their relationship is none of his business !