What should you do if your fiance cheated on you?

Answer 1

Kiss the ground! Feel lucky you found out now and not when you're married with a couple of kids. I know it hurts you a great deal, but don't give this person another chance .. they broke that trust!

ANSWER:

It depend if it was my fiance who told me personally, I will be hurt for a while, but I will be more smarter because he did it when were not married yet. And I will loose most of my trust in him because of that, but at least his man enough to come to me and tell me himself.

Unfortunately this happened to me a long time ago, the man I married had lied and kept something from me. He thought I do not have the rights to know what he did when he was away, his reason was we weren't married yet and he can do what he wanted to do, after he promised me that he will never look for another girl as long as he knows I will be waiting for him till he gets back. I found out not because he told me personally but I caught him by asking a simple question that I saw in the picture. I guess God gave me that day to test us if the man I married will be truthful and loyal to me. But unfortunately I lost my trust with this man who supposed to be my husband..

Answer 2

i will forgive her,forget her and marry another woman.

If you're definite that she was cheating on you, then there are two things you can do. You can talk to her and try to ask her why she did that, see if you can work anything out between you too, and if not then dump her. If you don't think she deserves a second chance from you, then just dump her straight away. If someone cheats on you then they don't really deserve another chance, but if you really love this person then you will probably try to work things out, but be careful if you do, she could cheat on you again.

When your girlfriend cheats:

You break up with her and never take her back.

I'm going to tell you how I feel from a teenage girl's perspective:

If I cheat on you, I cheat on you for a reason. You see my motto is 'If a dude cheats on me I don't get mad, I get even!'

From a smart guy's perspective:

If she cheats, you need to realize something is wrong with either you, her or both. My girlfriend has a tendency to cheat on me and has cheated on her exes several times. I have not given my girlfriend a reason to cheat. If there's a hardship in our relationship as any other couple, and THEN she cheats, that just means she is a BAD girlfriend and without doubt, dump her! HOWEVER, if she cheats on you for no cause or reason, she needs help more than hurt. Consult a therapist at least, and if you feel you're in college or too busy to handle it, sorry to say, let it go. Let it go. Let it go. But give her the benefit of doubt too, will ya?

There is also the fact that you will always think that she is doing something behind your back even if she is not. If you really love her this could be very troubling so think your decision over very wisely because it's not exactly worth it stressing over someone who cheated on you. Don't ruin your life over someone who did that unless you can work something out and trust each other again.

Answer 3

• First, put the wedding date off for awhile longer. When a man commits to a woman and becomes engaged and cheats then he is being selfish; hurtful and does not consider your feelings and you need time to consider whether you want to spend the rest of your life with this man. It extremely important to let him know that he has broken the bond of trust you had in him and you may just move on in your life. If he truly loves you he'll make an effort and if he doesn't then move on as much as it may hurt your heart and realize you deserve better treatment than he is giving you.
  

Answer 4

OK so heres what you do when i found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me i left him because

#1 it showed me that i couldn't trust him

#2 and that i can do way better with my life than have that 1 guy ruin my life forever

but also i have found that if you forgive him he thinks that he will be of the hook and continue to do it because hes going to assume you just don't really care because he thinks that you wont dump him either way

Answer 5

• If there is no credence to you cheating ask him where he got his information from. If he refuses then tell him you have a right to face your accuser. If he is just second guessing you are cheating then he is immature and has no self confidence. This could be caused from a former girlfriend cheating on him or perhaps his own mother cheated on his father. The best solution is to communicate with your fiance and get to the root of the problem. If he refuses then tell him the engagement is off because marriage comes with a bond of trust and you do not want to be unfairly accused of cheating when you did not.

Answer 6

If he doesn't believe you, leave him. You shouldn't be in a relationship where trust is one sided.

Answer 7

im gonna kiss him to not cheat me again