What should you do when the guy you have been with for two years and can't live without is accused of cheating but says it isn't true but you are unsure because everything he is saying doesn't add up?

Answer 1

So many times I have heard the statement "I can't live without him/her." This simply isn't true. We can all live without that true love in our lives when and if we have too. Life just goes on and so does future happiness. No one has that much control over us (even if we love that person with all our heart) that we can't exist without them. People are doing it as we speak .... widows, widowers, friends, etc. We all lose people in our lives, but we all manage to keep on stroking. It is extremely hard to accuse someone without proof that they are cheating or even liars (the two go hand-in-hand.) If you are fearful of wasting your time on this guy, then the only thing you can do is take the risk of hiring someone to follow him (or you do it with a friend.) Cheaters can generally be caught if one chooses to catch them. Sometimes we can't see the forest for the trees. When he isn't around write down on a piece of paper what has happened to the two of you in the past 4 months (the good/bad) and also write down why you suspect him of cheating and what things don't add up. Put the paper away for 2 - 3 days and then haul it out. You'll have your answer! Good luck Marcy