What should you say to your boyfriend if you and he are having trouble talking and it seems like he's trying to avoid you but you decided to give him another chance?

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I have gone through my own life being very direct with people I care about and I don't play games. I'd express your feelings to him and don't be afraid to tell him what you think of his actions of late. Just tell him like it is and don't be so afraid of losing him by being honest. If he walks away after your talk he wasn't worth it and look ahead of you and find someone that truly does deserve you.

If someone makes you feel miserable most of the time they are not in love with you. The odd argument is very normal, but if you argue all the time and he makes absolutely no effort to communicate with you even when you try to communicate with him, then don't stay for the long ride.

Good luckMarcy

AnswerIf he is trying to avoid you or the conversation, there is something wrong. Ask yourself why you would give this person a second chance, do you think he will change on his own? Probably not... A good relationship should not be this hard. Ask yourself this.....can you deal with the way the relationship is going right now for the rest of your life? If not then move on, you are the only one in this relationship that is holding on. Has he asked you to give him a second chance, then he isn't trying. You deserve better, believe me I got out of a relationship like this 9 months ago. And I was the only one who cared.