"You married" is past tense.
The inflections of "married" are: marry (base form), marries (present tense, singular), married (past tense), marrying (present participle/gerund), and will marry (future tense).
Marry/marries is the present tense. The past tense is married, and the future tense is will marry.
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She was not marrying.
She was marrying.
being married
No. Married can be a verb, the past tense and past participle of to draw. It can also be used as an adjective.
It is also "set up" The past tense of set is also set. For example: I set up my friends and now they're getting married.
No. Marry is the verb. The noun is marriage and the adjective is married. (The word "merry" sounds like marry and is an adjective.)