What to do for a mom who doesn't approve of your boyfriend?

Answer 1

It time to stop being angry at your mom, go sit in your room or go for a walk and really think about this boyfriend of yours. Does he treat you well such as being polite, listening to what you have to say, showing affection, etc. If he doesn't then perhaps your mother has good reason not to like your boyfriend and you may be missing the danger signs. Mothers aren't there to make your life miserable, they just don't want you to get hurt. Ask your mother why she doesn't like your boyfriend and when she answers you really listen and see if she may have some good points about him.

Answer 2

I am in the same situatuation except he broke up with me because of it. His mom told him a while ago to break up with me except he didnt want to, so he didnt. when his mom found out that we were still together she lost trust in him and stopped talking to him. He decided that even after coming this far he didnt want to continue in the relationship. It has been a bit over a month since we broke up and he says that he has moved on. I still have the same exact feelings for him as i did before and i dont know what to do. For now we are friends but its really painful to be friends knowing that it cant be anything more than that. I dont know what to do. I really need advice, fast!

Answer 3

Have you ever sat quietly in your room and gone over what your boyfriend is like and that perhaps your mother may be right? If not, do so. Is he good to you? Does he treat you with respect? Does he keep his promises, dates, listens to you and is there when you need him and is he loyal? Is he polite and does he treat you well when out? These are serious questions you have to ask yourself. If he's disrespectful to you, your family, friends and rude then it's a wonder your mom hasn't booted this guy in the butt and done more than she has done. Your mother loves you and whether you like it or not the older a person gets the wiser most get and your mother may see right through this guy. If you think he's nice then sit down with your mother and ask her if you could invite him over for dinner and at least get a chance to know him. Then watch how he acts and if he interacts well with your mother and you'll have your answer.