What to do if daughter in law hates you?

Answer 1

chances are your overly protective. you are kind of insane and need like counseling. but not family counseling. just you. trust me. you need it. and you should start letting your daughter do what she wants more often cause everyone knows that shes a good person. and you should take her to subway... and you should stop having so many rules. the more freedom you give her the more she'll behave and like you. kay well either floow this adivce or be hated forever.

Answer 2

She makes her own choices. You can only offer your hand.

-Vampirspitfir

Make sure you understand why, if its a simple misunderstanding then resolve it quickly before it evolves.

DO NOT accuse her of anything, you cannot fix it overnight, it will take time, tell her that you care for her and it will make you both unhappy if you carry on 'hating' each other.

Talk somewhere you both feel comfortable, where no-one can interupt you, if she is not ready to talk give her time, tell her that you are willing to wait.

It may be hard but try not to dominate the conversation with your own feelings as she may feel that you are trying to make the conversation your own, i.e. she cant get a word in edgeways.

Treat this situation as you would getting a new pet who's afraid; space, comfort when needed, understanding and most important, love.

Good luck

Answer 3

If she doesn't have any real reason (and they usually don't) it may be a problem for a professional. It may also be genetic - narcissim or guilt, or it may be jealousy! Forgive, forget, ignore and pray!

Answer 4

build ahh bridge & get over it yeahh ? .. sound wunnn (y) (: