What was the cause of Bec Santelices and OD's breakup?

Answer 1

Their relationship has always been plagued with differences in values and opinions. Bec has always been the passive type to a fault while OD has always been the confrontational and temperamental one. They are both very headstrong on their beliefs. Their conflicting styles in dealing with their issues brought more pressure and stress to their differences. OD wants to talk and resolve issues as they encounter them, while BEC believes that suspending the issue for better timing or until nature takes care of its own problem, is the more appropriate style, given OD's explosive temper. OD has controlling tendencies while Bec is the passive stubborn type. However, despite the gravity of their issues, they managed to coexist for nearly 12 years. The relationship probably survived on codependency. Both seeked to pursue a healthy stance on their lives ergo the mutual decision to separate has been reached.